Teaching Children Religious Duties Requires Patience, Positive Reinforcement: Expert
Parents and educators play a crucial role in preparing children for religious responsibilities, says Masoumeh Tabatabaei, an Iranian professor and expert in psychology and philosophy. Speaking to IQNA on religious education for children, she emphasized that fostering commitment to religious duties requires a gradual and patient approach.
"Just as a child's growth does not happen overnight, preparing them for religious obligations also takes time and patience," Tabatabaei said.
She warned that merely holding a coming-of-age (takleef) celebration is not enough for children to embrace religious duties. Instead, she encouraged parents to start discussions about faith months in advance, ensuring children understand the significance of this new stage in life.
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According to Tabatabaei, the way religious practices are introduced greatly impacts a child’s perception. "Some parents unintentionally present religious duties as burdens by saying things like, 'Pray quickly so you can get it over with.' This is a mistake," she noted. Instead, she advised parents to frame prayer as "an opportunity to connect with God," making the experience more inviting and meaningful.
Setting an example is key, she added. "Children do not become what we wish for them; they become what they see in us." If parents do not prioritize religious practices, she explained, they should not expect their children to do so. "If we want our children to pray on time, we must demonstrate that it is a priority for us as well."
To make religious practices appealing, she suggested adding elements that resonate with children. "Buying a beautiful prayer mat or colorful scarves for girls approaching the age of religious duty can make the experience more enjoyable," she said.
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She also encouraged parents to involve children in communal religious activities, such as group prayers or visits to religious sites.
Ultimately, Tabatabaei stressed that with careful guidance and a nurturing approach, religious duties can become a source of joy rather than obligation. "If children develop a love for these practices in childhood, they are more likely to carry them throughout their lives."
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